头 好痛好痛 心也好痛好痛
在经历了那么多事情以后 我不确定我是否 还能拥有幸福！
幸福 总是看见其他人过得很幸福
可是 我的幸福 却在很遥远的远方
它？ 什么时候才能在我身边
让我有机会尝试下幸福的感觉！
我好想要拥有幸福！
Tuesday, April 27, 2010
好难过哦
test
Your view on yourself:
You are down-to-earth and people like you because you are so straightforward. You are an efficient problem solver because you will listen to both sides of an argument before making a decision that usually appeals to both parties.
The type of girlfriend/boyfriend you are looking for:
You are a true romantic. When you are in love, you will do anything and everything to keep your love true.
Your readiness to commit to a relationship:
You are ready to commit as soon as you meet the right person. And you believe you will pretty much know as soon as you might that person.
The seriousness of your love:
You like to flirt and behave seductively. The opposite sex finds this very attractive, and that's why you'll always have admirers hanging off your arms. But how serious are you about choosing someone to be in a relationship with?
Your views on education
Education is very important in life. You want to study hard and learn as much as you can.
The right job for you:
You have plenty of dream jobs but have little chance of doing any of them if you don't focus on something in particular. You need to choose something and go for it to be happy and achieve success.
How do you view success:
You are afraid of failure and scared to have a go at the career you would like to have in case you don't succeed. Don't give up when you haven't yet even started! Be courageous.
What are you most afraid of:
You are afraid of things that you cannot control. Sometimes you show your anger to cover up how you feel.
Who is your true self:
You are mature, reasonable, honest and give good advice. People ask for your comments on all sorts of different issues. Sometimes you might find yourself in a dilemma when trapped with a problem, which your heart rather than your head needs to solve.
Try again | Give me more
Friday, April 2, 2010
看完了电影， 很多感触！ 我开始不确定自己是否有这个能力去完成人生的宿命。
人的一生 从大学毕业，找了份自认不错的工作，然后在茫茫人海中找到了你决定和他共度一生的那个他， 家庭，小孩....... 这就是人生。
这间种会遇到了很多的难题， 可是要如何用爱把这所有的难题化切不是见容易的事，
尤其是两个不同的人要去把这个人生任务完成 是需要很多很多的爱。
很怕爱会因为时间或习惯而消失。
人与人相处是一个很大门的学问。
今天看到了good tv, 两夫妻相处之道， 让我收益不浅。
牧师说如果夫妻相处的时候，角色是很重要的。（不是你想的那个角色扮演哦）
夫妻会一直吵架如果他们的角色老是像个妈妈与小孩 或是 老是与学生。
要有长久的爱情，就因该时常保持与朋友对朋友的身份 可是当然要有夫妻之间那种爱！
昨晚看了 Guess Who 这电影也是让我很有感触！
黑人老爸与老妈二十五结婚纪念之感想 如何维持这二十五年来的婚姻就是
让女人永远都是对的！
和女人争吵 就是在自杀。
因为爱，你娶了她， 然后在日后的生活 是你需要她！
如果没有任何可以让你失去她的理由， 只好忍气吞声了！
哈哈 太棒了
其实女人是情绪动物， 脾气像风 来得快 去的也快 只要让一让她 她会更爱你的
所有天下的女人都一样
所以啊 男人 别以为你下个女人肯定会更好
好好珍惜你身边的女人吧
狗
刚看完了 Marley and Me 由 Owen Wilson and Jennifer Aniston 合演的.
故事是讲述 John and Jen's life - John and Jen got married and both found a good job, got a house, got a dog - Marley ( a golden retriever just the same as Diamond) and then they start their family by having the 1st kid - a baby boy, 2nd baby boy and the 3rd baby girl. Marley is with them throughout all their life process till his last breath. A movie reflect on our daily life - life!
太感人了，眼泪都不提使唤流了下来。他不是一只英雄狗， 他只是一只平凡的狗在一个平凡的家里。
就是因为这样的平凡，所以扣人心弦。
Message about Diamond:
Marley make me think so Diamond. Marley is just the same as Diamond. Or should say Diamond is the same as Marley. hahaha ..... Diamond and Marley are the same! hahaha
Marley is a wild dog even the dog trainer just have no clue on him. Diamond also the same, she is just the worst dog ( declared by others) by for us we all love her as who she is and no matter what happened. Just hope that she can always be with us!
Wednesday, March 31, 2010
HALT principle!
Today came across a website which is very useful and give me a very good insight towards personal finance and not only that but family finance as well.
One of the awakening quotes: (well, its not about finance... too much of it)
Remember the HALT principle. Important discussions may need to be delayed if either spouse is Hungry, Angry, Lonely, or Tired.
This is very useful not only in sorting family finance... but i think
it is applicable in all cases when you are living in a social world!
:)
The most effective way is to teach other! This one is really good too. I experiencing it each day whenever I'm training.
i have a greater understanding and can master better towards new training materials yet I'm learning a lot of new things from difference people!
Eye must be open bright, ear must open wide so that you are able to learn from others!
四月一号
不知不觉，已经是四月了
踏入四月的第一天， 很开心 因为终于可以有时间和自己独处
一号真是个收拾与计划的好日子
只因一 就是开头的意思吧 就像是火车头的意思 带领你去你要去的地方
哈哈 胡言乱语一番 困了吧
今天真实太开心了
刚吃饱 好久没有吃宵夜的感觉
一句话 超赞 超爽
今天要把房间整理好 把所有没有用的累赘全丢出去
然后明天在好好的消化自己！
感恩
Monday, March 29, 2010
结婚
结婚到底是什么样的感觉呢？
我想每个人对婚姻都有不同的遭遇，
有些人才刚新婚，
有些人白头偕老，
有些人离婚了又结婚，
有些人只想一辈子同居（结婚和不结没差 所以把它列为结婚一类）
所以如果不是自己亲身经历过，
应该不知道那幸福或不幸福的感觉吧！
我想 幸福的婚姻应该是需要用’心‘去经营的吧！
就像经营百年老店吧！
将‘心’ 比 ‘心’ 吧！
永结同心
今天在fb看到了Cary and William的结婚，
真替他们感到高兴！
认识他们是在Time Restaurant， Brighton 做waitress的时候，
William 是 Malaysian, 忘了他是在厨房工作还是waiter了。
他是做全职的。
Cary 是来自 Hong Kong 是和我在同一间大学念书然后一起在 Time Restaurant 做 Part time.
我想我们也是因为Suzanne 的关系而认识的吧！
如果我的小脑袋没记错的话。。。 哈哈
后来Cary 不知道为了什么事情而没完成学业，就回香港了。
在后来，就不了了知了。
经过了这么多年，后来都没消息了。
后来的后来， 在fb见到了William, 才知道他们还在一起。
这么多年的爱情终于有了成果。
那时我和Suzanne总觉得不一样背景的恋爱加上远距离爱情应该很难会有好的结果吧
为什么会有这样的想法是因为我们都有一样的经历！
不想在这一一的细诉，太长的故事了。哈哈
可是今天他们却是那么的幸福携手共创美丽的未来，
我想这就是真爱吧！
我是那么的充满感触与感动！
祝他们 永结同心
希望我的爱情故事也会有个美满的结果。。。
Sunday, March 28, 2010
Saturday, March 27, 2010
过客
有些人 他们就在你的长长的八十年人生短短的出现几年，几个月或是几天。。。
（为什么我会说是八十年是因为我深信我会活到八十岁！）
所以如果能有机会和他们相处，
真的需要好好享受这些时光，不论他们对待你好不好。。。
人生最重要的是过程， 过程是需要有过客 来成就你的过程！
Naval piercing!!
Today i just got my naval piercing ( belly button piercing )!
Actually i was having this thought for quite some times.... and
i was thinking to do it once i reached 50kg but then
until now i still cant reach 50kg... the best i did was 51kg!
when i was on the road this afternoon, some thought came to my mind..
Do i get get it done now or after my 1st delivery? ha?!
i think it will be impossible and ugly to do it after delivery
just simply because the belly will be absolutely superb big compare to before!
Anyway, I did it in short!
Well, how i wish I can share it here via photo however my belly is too bloated due to
I ate too much! hahahahahaha....
It was a quick process....
Dealed the price... got in the room... and it was done less in 2 minutes!
I was shocked when he opened the temporary stunt and he want to use it to pierce it
on my belly button! He said need to use it manually!
At first, I thought he is going to use the piercing gun just like
what we used to do with the ear or nose piercing!
Well, it is not very painful as I think and I can still managed to deal with the pain.
I will just need to be careful with the after care because I don't want same thing
happen to my nose piercing before!
2 weeks from now before I can actually get a nice stunt for it!
While I was on my way back home, I was thinking
It will be so cool when i take my pregnancy photo because other than a big tummy
and i have a belly stunt on it!
If it is a boy I ll wear a blue stunt and if it is a girl, it is going to be a pink 1!
hahaha.... dream fulfilled!
Thursday, March 25, 2010
矛盾
我觉得 有些时候 一对情侣的争执是可以避免的
女生很多时候都是存在于矛盾的状态下
就像 她想要那男友是个上进努力工作赚钱的人
可是当她男友上进努力工作赚钱的时候
她就开始埋怨他不理会她
或是不爱她
如果你是以上那样子的女生
请清醒清醒吧
请理性的想一想吧。。。。
你要的那个他到底是那个他！！
我在此警惕自己！ 哈哈
Ring!
Months ago I was so jeolous with Xia Xue...
Xia Xue's got her perfect ring on her hand!!
It is an unique heart shape! luckily she didnt manage to get a pink 1!!
Afterwards, I was thinking what kind of ring I want it for ...
I may not want an ordinary 1...
Or a ''BIG'' diamond like Ee's 1
Cos I have been always longing for something special....
and I always have my own taste on everything!!
And last night.....
Ding.... something came inside my eye and my mind....
Gosh .....
I have found the perfect ring for my finger!hahaha
It is unique and nice and just fit for me!
But the thing is I dont know how much is it!!
But I guess it wouldnt be something cheap!
Hay... why taste always comes with high price!
hahaha.....
anyway ll check it out 1 day and
Im sure im gonna own it just simply I deserve it!
We gal always deserve for a sweet treat!
hahahaha
:)
Wednesday, March 24, 2010
财务独立＝自由
昨天看了一本书， 名字是 rich woman! 作者是 The Best Seller Book- Rich Dad Poor Dad 作者
Robert T. Kiyosaki 的老婆 Kim Kiyosaki.
书中她说了很多蛮有道理的东西， 虽然没学道很关于投资的知识， 可是她会让你醒觉， 原来财务独立对于女人是那么重要的！ 她透过她朋友的真实列案， 让读者明白为什么太多的女人为了钱去选择过自己不想过的生活！女人不能只是一枚的靠男人，家庭， 企业或政府过活！很多列案，男人有外遇机例高，家庭遗产？！好多人就为了那遗产而没了家，企业？不是所有的公司有吧！政府？ 想都没想过，只因自己不是马来土族！
这让我想了我妈老是说得，靠山山会到，靠水水会流。。。 我们还是得靠自己！
女人都做了很多对于投资的蠢事， 比如
1。 为了钱而结婚
2。 因为担心没法自己生活，所以还是在不幸福的婚姻里，逃不出来
3。 让男人决定所有重要财务决定
4。 接受男人对钱比较懂的迷思
5。 希望男人对处理财务会做出改变
6。 从没计划未来，因为觉得是男人该做的
还有很多很多。。。。
一句话简介， 就是女人要自由，要开心，要安心，就得要财务自由！那样才能高枕无忧的过活！
Tuesday, March 23, 2010
good sharing from MArtin (god sent msg)
创造人生，别让自己再＂受害＂
From: Martin TGH (martintgh@gmail.com)
Sent: 23 March 2010 16:25:52
To: martintgh.8899@blogger.com
选择不做＂受害者＂
＂受害者＂特徵：
1 责怪他人
2 找藉口，让藉口合理化
3 抱怨他人
不做受害者，改做受益者
＂受益者＂特徵：
1 感恩他人
2 找方法，让方法实践化
3 帮助他人
思考创造人生财富！
--
Best Regards,
Martin Teo
good sharing
1 st class employee work for a great culture
2nd class employee work for expertise
3rd class employee work for money
is it SKII or LOVE
Last year, my skin was in a great shit!
But recently,
it is back to its normal condition or even better!!
I don't know whether is it due to SKII or LOVE?!
Who can tell me though?!
Hahahahaha
ME RECENTLY
又在blogger消失了好久
还好 还找到了回路
所以又会开始blogging了
十二月，2009年
是新的一年的开始， 从没实际的想过 原来一直都在寻找的那个‘他’
就一直都在身边
（哈哈。。。也不能说是一直，因该是‘他’ 总是在我需要的时候出现，这才可贵吧）
从恢复单身以后，经过三个月的沉淀期， 让我清楚我想要的是什么！
人生是需要计划的！ 计划是需要纪录下来的！ 然后不断的依照每天的进化，而去加以更改，
一直到找到心中的那个蓝图！
对与自己想要的事业，还没什么寻找到！
对于自己想要的伴侣，有了实际的基本的要求， 可要去那找呢？
对于自己想要的家， 还是难做决定，只因还没找到另一半！
对于自己想要去的地方， 总于有了计划，可是却不知会在什么时候去！
对头自己对自己的要求，还是需要时间去改变！
对于自己的内心世界， 我想还是需要很多的时间去成长！
一月， 2010 年
计划归计划
活在现实的生活里 有时会因为现实的煎熬 而忘了自己！
工作还是一样 好无起色
然而 他 却提醒了我 原来心中想要的那个 他
就是他
当然有太多的顾虑和现实的考量
我 踏不出这脚步
我想 时间能告诉我答案
二月，2010 年
过年啊， 太好了
家的感觉是太好了 可是有的时候 因太多人的关系 很难去平衡
但 和家人在一起就向在天堂里
和妹 一起聊天 化妆 试衣
就想以前一样
和他去吃饭 已想好了 该这么去回答他的问题
可是心里还是十分的忐忑不安
哈哈 可能是自己不想要的答案吧
告诉自己 就随心吧
一个她身边有了个他
有个超温馨的新年！
三月，2010年
我想 决定是对的
只是 过程是需要很多的毅力！
Thursday, January 21, 2010
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