Tuesday, April 27, 2010

好难过哦

头 好痛好痛 心也好痛好痛

在经历了那么多事情以后 我不确定我是否 还能拥有幸福!

幸福 总是看见其他人过得很幸福

可是 我的幸福 却在很遥远的远方

它? 什么时候才能在我身边

让我有机会尝试下幸福的感觉!

我好想要拥有幸福!

test

Your view on yourself:
You are down-to-earth and people like you because you are so straightforward. You are an efficient problem solver because you will listen to both sides of an argument before making a decision that usually appeals to both parties.

The type of girlfriend/boyfriend you are looking for:
You are a true romantic. When you are in love, you will do anything and everything to keep your love true.

Your readiness to commit to a relationship:
You are ready to commit as soon as you meet the right person. And you believe you will pretty much know as soon as you might that person.

The seriousness of your love:
You like to flirt and behave seductively. The opposite sex finds this very attractive, and that's why you'll always have admirers hanging off your arms. But how serious are you about choosing someone to be in a relationship with?

Your views on education
Education is very important in life. You want to study hard and learn as much as you can.

The right job for you:
You have plenty of dream jobs but have little chance of doing any of them if you don't focus on something in particular. You need to choose something and go for it to be happy and achieve success.

How do you view success:
You are afraid of failure and scared to have a go at the career you would like to have in case you don't succeed. Don't give up when you haven't yet even started! Be courageous.

What are you most afraid of:
You are afraid of things that you cannot control. Sometimes you show your anger to cover up how you feel.

Who is your true self:
You are mature, reasonable, honest and give good advice. People ask for your comments on all sorts of different issues. Sometimes you might find yourself in a dilemma when trapped with a problem, which your heart rather than your head needs to solve.

Try again | Give me more

Friday, April 2, 2010

看完了电影, 很多感触! 我开始不确定自己是否有这个能力去完成人生的宿命。

人的一生 从大学毕业,找了份自认不错的工作,然后在茫茫人海中找到了你决定和他共度一生的那个他, 家庭,小孩....... 这就是人生。

这间种会遇到了很多的难题, 可是要如何用爱把这所有的难题化切不是见容易的事,

尤其是两个不同的人要去把这个人生任务完成 是需要很多很多的爱。

很怕爱会因为时间或习惯而消失。

人与人相处是一个很大门的学问。

今天看到了good tv, 两夫妻相处之道, 让我收益不浅。

牧师说如果夫妻相处的时候,角色是很重要的。(不是你想的那个角色扮演哦)

夫妻会一直吵架如果他们的角色老是像个妈妈与小孩 或是 老是与学生。

要有长久的爱情,就因该时常保持与朋友对朋友的身份 可是当然要有夫妻之间那种爱!

昨晚看了 Guess Who 这电影也是让我很有感触!

黑人老爸与老妈二十五结婚纪念之感想 如何维持这二十五年来的婚姻就是

让女人永远都是对的!

和女人争吵 就是在自杀。

因为爱,你娶了她, 然后在日后的生活 是你需要她!

如果没有任何可以让你失去她的理由, 只好忍气吞声了!

哈哈 太棒了

其实女人是情绪动物, 脾气像风 来得快 去的也快 只要让一让她 她会更爱你的

所有天下的女人都一样

所以啊 男人 别以为你下个女人肯定会更好

好好珍惜你身边的女人吧

刚看完了 Marley and Me 由 Owen Wilson and Jennifer Aniston 合演的.

故事是讲述 John and Jen's life - John and Jen got married and both found a good job, got a house, got a dog - Marley ( a golden retriever just the same as Diamond) and then they start their family by having the 1st kid - a baby boy, 2nd baby boy and the 3rd baby girl. Marley is with them throughout all their life process till his last breath. A movie reflect on our daily life - life!

太感人了,眼泪都不提使唤流了下来。他不是一只英雄狗, 他只是一只平凡的狗在一个平凡的家里。

就是因为这样的平凡,所以扣人心弦。

Message about Diamond:

Marley make me think so Diamond. Marley is just the same as Diamond. Or should say Diamond is the same as Marley. hahaha ..... Diamond and Marley are the same! hahaha
Marley is a wild dog even the dog trainer just have no clue on him. Diamond also the same, she is just the worst dog ( declared by others) by for us we all love her as who she is and no matter what happened. Just hope that she can always be with us!

Wednesday, March 31, 2010

HALT principle!

Today came across a website which is very useful and give me a very good insight towards personal finance and not only that but family finance as well.

One of the awakening quotes: (well, its not about finance... too much of it)

Remember the HALT principle. Important discussions may need to be delayed if either spouse is Hungry, Angry, Lonely, or Tired.

This is very useful not only in sorting family finance... but i think

it is applicable in all cases when you are living in a social world!

:)

The most effective way is to teach other! This one is really good too. I experiencing it each day whenever I'm training.

i have a greater understanding and can master better towards new training materials yet I'm learning a lot of new things from difference people!

Eye must be open bright, ear must open wide so that you are able to learn from others!

四月一号

不知不觉,已经是四月了

踏入四月的第一天, 很开心 因为终于可以有时间和自己独处

一号真是个收拾与计划的好日子

只因一 就是开头的意思吧 就像是火车头的意思 带领你去你要去的地方

哈哈 胡言乱语一番 困了吧

今天真实太开心了

刚吃饱 好久没有吃宵夜的感觉

一句话 超赞 超爽

今天要把房间整理好 把所有没有用的累赘全丢出去

然后明天在好好的消化自己!

感恩

Monday, March 29, 2010

结婚

结婚到底是什么样的感觉呢?

我想每个人对婚姻都有不同的遭遇,

有些人才刚新婚,

有些人白头偕老,

有些人离婚了又结婚,

有些人只想一辈子同居(结婚和不结没差 所以把它列为结婚一类)

所以如果不是自己亲身经历过,

应该不知道那幸福或不幸福的感觉吧!

我想 幸福的婚姻应该是需要用’心‘去经营的吧!

就像经营百年老店吧!

将‘心’ 比 ‘心’ 吧!

 
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